Are you gay?

[zizzy]

Many people have, had, and are going to ask me that. I kept saying no and left it like that. I dont like lying to people but to me I'm not lying because I'm bi. If someone else ask me that should I just keep saying no or just tell them I'm bi or both?

[Long Duck Dong]

are you a pink flying elephant with green wings and a 28 foot penis ????
if you are, and people ask and you want to tell them... then tell them

seriously.... you will find people that will not believe you about your sexuality cos they do not wish to believe that its possible to be bisexual....just ignore them

you are who you are, not what people tell you, you are

[jem_is_bi]

I have not had to answer a question about my sexuality in a very long time. In fact, I cannot remember when. Since I am not married, I would not be surprised if some people are curious. However, if someone did ask me about my sexual preference, I would instead ask him or her a question; “Why do you need to know whether I am a straight man or a gay man?” Unless they have a good answer to this question, I am not answering their question. Also, I doubt most people would understand that bisexual was different from gay.

JEM

[DiamondDog]

I honestly don't care what people think I am since I know what I am.

I can't pass as being heterosexual and I don't even really try to anymore.

[raistkit]

have to agree with dd. we don't really care what people think of us. yes we pass. however if you watch how we physically interact it's as plain as the nose on your face. as to the original question it's on a need to know basis. most don't need to know. professionally no we're not out, causes too many complications. socially most guess, but don't ask. if they do beware cause we both answer honestly.

kit

[open4bizness]

Just smart off to 'em:

"That depends...are you asking me out?"

[Cid87]

Being a gay man means that you do not like women sexually, if you like women sexually then you are not gay.

[DiamondDog]

Being a gay man means that you do not like women sexually, if you like women sexually then you are not gay.

that's kinda true, I know men who are homosexual who are curious about having sex with a woman just to try it once to see what it's like but actually doing it is another thing and they doubt that they'd actually be able to do it since they've had VERY rare attractions to women, and a few of my male homosexual friends did talk about having sex dreams about women but these were very rare.

I also know men who are bisexual but they call themselves "gay" since they're closeted about being bisexual.