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Karasel
Dec 17, 2009, 11:56 AM
Alright, just wanted to here other peoples' stories. I myself had rough sex yesterday, and now I have to put bandages on my nipples, cause a friend of mine is into nipple torture and they are so sore now.
It was crazy and other things happened, but the nipple thing is the only thing that left a "side effect" on me..
Bi_Druid
Dec 17, 2009, 12:10 PM
How are we defining 'rough'?
I'm into having my cock bitten and chewed, my bf is rather good at it (which is a change as most other guys I've been with tend to be too nervous or gentle to really go for it; girls tend not to be quite as cautious:cool:) and sometimes he will even leave teeth marks in my shaft, but these often don't last very long. I guess it helps that he's into having other parts of himself bitten properly, so he really knows how to do a good job of it.
The only other side effect I can think of is bruised insides, where I've dared to let someone with a cock as big as mine fuck me, but they've ended up just being the sort who seems to think that simply having a big cock is going to do all the work for them. Not nice. Size is grand if you know how to use it right too! As a result, especially when fucking others, I tend towards gentler sensual sex to start with, unless asked to perform otherwise.
rissababynta
Dec 17, 2009, 6:06 PM
The past three nights my husband has been pounding the shit out of me while I've been screaming at him to slap me lol. For the past few days the only problem I've had has been a bit o' cramping from him being so far in me and some sensitivity when we start going at it the next time, but it has been well worth it.
That's pretty much all that happens when we get into rough nights. At least, nothing else bothers me.
Realist
Dec 17, 2009, 8:03 PM
I've never been into rough sex. I had a feeling that it bordered on abuse and I didn't wanna go there.
My first wife was a firey redhead. Stereotypical, or not, she could get madder than most women I ever knew and she would yell and hit, if she got mad enough.
When we got into an argument, sometimes, she could lose her cool and try to hit me. The time in question, she boiled over and took a swing at me. I used to box and was pretty fast on my feet, so unless she blind-sided me, she couldn't land a hand on me.
I grabbed her hands and pushed her over on the bed. She hated to be held down, but I was on top of her, holding her hands above her head. I told her I was going to hold her until she calmed down.
She screamed "I am calm, GODDAMMIT!"
I continued to hold her as she squirmed, twisted and yelled, she even spit at me. She was PISSED!
Still I held her down. I'm not sure how long that went on, but she complained that I was hurting her wrists and when I eased up a little she tried to get loose so she could hit me again!
She got really frustrated, crying, yelling, cussing me. Finally, she became too tired to fight any more, but I continued to hold her.
All of a sudden, a different look came on her face. She began wanting to kiss me. I thought it was a ruse at first, but then I kissed her and she kissed me deeply, with feeling. I realized that she was aroused!
We usually always showered before sex, but that time we tore our clothes off and got down to business. She was voracious and we had sex late into the night. That was the most orgasmic I'd ever seen her and I assume it stemmed from being dominated.
I told her that we could do that without the anger, but when we did, something was missing. Afterwards, she would create a argument and then we'd go through that routine again.
After that, I began to restrain her in different ways. I tied her up and left her until she calmed down, locked her in a store room, I actually chained her to an orange tree one time! Each time, when she had been mad, then calmed down, sex with her was mind-boggling.
The fighting was always unnerving to me, but the end results made it worth while.
I've never done that before, or since.
Bi_Druid
Dec 18, 2009, 12:09 PM
angry sex is always great fun and a wonderful may to end and argument. Never go to sleep on a bad temper
darkeyes
Dec 18, 2009, 2:53 PM
... well..ther r bruises, cuts, scratches, weals, achin nips as has been sed, sore bits, unintended scars, chipped teeth, head sores an many othas..an it often takes time for marks, cuts an aches 2 disappear..howeva bad it is wen yas finished ya lil sesh a wild rough sex, always b prepared for the day afta wen oft the aches an pains r worse than wen yas settled down afta yas spent an well knackered.. but at its best... its a memory 2 savour...:bigrin: jus don thnk ther r nev ne unpleasant consequences...:(:(
Is it worth it?? 2 rite it is....:tong:
darkeyes
Dec 18, 2009, 3:01 PM
.. o yea.. an don forget bites.... they hurt, mark, break skin so bleed.. an so.. careful bout HIV an otha STD's.. unintended side effects wich can b nasty, dangerous an lethal... an as me partner jus pointed out.. rough sex can get outa hand an has been known 2 becum nastily violent an fatal... jus a lil thot for Christmas.. enjoy but b careful..
12voltman59
Dec 18, 2009, 4:16 PM
I guess I always sorta liked "vigorous sex" if not particularly rough.
One time I had started seeing this really hot gal----our sex got so "intense" that I had actually rubbed some spots on "the little guy" raw, so we had to take break to let them heal up before we got back to some "rough sex!" :bigrin::tong:
We did try to get back to the sex a bit early before those spots were sufficiently healed and I can say--it did hurt pretty good :eek::eek: but---it was worth it at least for that night!! :bigrin::bigrin: The thing was--trying to rush it only extended the healing and time of abstinence!!
roy m cox
Dec 19, 2009, 3:31 AM
yup i have had rough sex and did no like it at all by one guy that used a ball stretcher now i have damage to my scrotum and he liked biting my butt cheeks and he would suck my butt hole in a hard way that hurt to,
and i was going with a girl that liked rough stuff to she like snapping with a towel and that was not fun she did it one day when i bent over to pick up my undees i was nude and she got off a snap that hit my nuts instead of my butt that hurt for weeks after and she was in to biting to :yikes2: bit the head of my penis when i was asleep so i ended it rite their, i walked home that night it was about 40' out and all i had on was my jeans and a shirt and my shoos :( about froze to death that night
Karasel
Dec 19, 2009, 12:09 PM
yup i have had rough sex and did no like it at all by one guy that used a ball stretcher now i have damage to my scrotum and he liked biting my butt cheeks and he would suck my butt hole in a hard way that hurt to,
and i was going with a girl that liked rough stuff to she like snapping with a towel and that was not fun she did it one day when i bent over to pick up my undees i was nude and she got off a snap that hit my nuts instead of my butt that hurt for weeks after and she was in to biting to :yikes2: bit the head of my penis when i was asleep so i ended it rite their, i walked home that night it was about 40' out and all i had on was my jeans and a shirt and my shoos :( about froze to death that night
Snap, that is way too much. I like vigorous that sometimes led to rough-housing sex, but when you're sore weeks later in tender places... That just drives me up the wall.
So now I'm sitting here with a bottle of peroxide and a thing of bandages. I'm not complaining about the act, because it was fun while it lasted, I just wished there isn't such a thing as after effects.
cliffordmontero
Dec 19, 2009, 12:20 PM
personally i have had alot of different side effects but i always kinda enjoyed it . . . for days later the tenderness makes me think about the act and smile. reaching up a shelf at the store makes me wince in pain then smile and chuckle. i have had bruises, both internal and external, chaffing, rugburn, small cuts and bruises, oh and splinters and pulled muscles lol
roy m cox
Dec 20, 2009, 12:22 AM
Snap, that is way too much. I like vigorous that sometimes led to rough-housing sex, but when you're sore weeks later in tender places... That just drives me up the wall.
So now I'm sitting here with a bottle of peroxide and a thing of bandages. I'm not complaining about the act, because it was fun while it lasted, I just wished there isn't such a thing as after effects.
o_0 oww is all i could say ,,
I just wished there isn't such a thing as after effects, i agree..
Karasel
Dec 20, 2009, 11:53 AM
The memories is fun. And I'm always amused when I randomly wince in pain and some guy at the store asks me what is wrong and I say something like "Oh, I had some crazy sex a while go."
But at the end of the day, I'm peeved at the constant soreness.
Bicuriousity
Dec 20, 2009, 5:35 PM
After bottoming (receiving anal) a few times, I've had trouble keeping as hard of an erection for the next couple days. I hear the nerves could get damaged from being fucked to hard. Kind of scary. It's a reason I'd never probably do that all the time no matter how good it feels.
Karasel
Dec 20, 2009, 5:50 PM
I do anal sex all the time. I love it. It always felt good to me, even when I tried it for the first time.
But apparently I have a slighter higher tolerance to pain, than most people do.
Georgie_Girl
Dec 20, 2009, 8:46 PM
The only side effects I've ever had were bite marks and a little soreness. :)