I have been married for 7 years and am now 36 years old. I have know I was bi since I was about 20. I started experimenting at a young age with a friend and once I got to be a little older I knew I liked cock as much as I liked pussy. I played both way through my early 20's and stopped completely once I started dating my now wife. In the last year the urge has really been hard to suppress and I finally caved several months ago and have been playing regularly with a gay couple since December. I would love to share my wife with another man but am worried that if I bring it up she will freak out. She is what you would call a prude when it comes to sex. Any guidance would be greatly appreciated!!!!
I'm curious to hear opinions from men and women on their preference for male/female grooming habits. Both for themselves and what they prefer in a partner. I myself am completely shaved smooth, which both my husband and I prefer. My husband, being a fairly hairy guy, shaves his balls and neatly trims the rest. I like that look best for him because shaving around the rest would just look weird compared to the rest of his body hair. Looks good and keeps me from having to stop what I'm doing to pluck hairs off my tongue, which is something I really hate!
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I've always appreciated both the male and female form, as far back as I can recall. In my teens, hungry for ANY sexual contact, a guy friend and I indulged in some light playing once, and after that, I frequently planned elaborate situations to repeat it, but with him living out of town, that was difficult. In college, my best friend (who was also my roommate) and I frequently jerked off together and went down on one another. Still, it was a purely physical charge, no emotion involved. My primary attraction - including all emotional attraction - was still to girls. That has all stayed the same over the years, and when involved in a relationship, any fantasies about indulging with another guy stay right there in fantasyland. But then, any fantasies about indulging with another woman remain in fantasyland, too. Because of the different natures of my attractions to males and females, I've never really been comfortable calling myself "bisexual." In my eyes, it wasn't really accurate. Strictly speaking, though, I wasn't "straight," either. Definitely not "gay." "Curious" seemed misapplied, too, because...well...I knew that I'd enjoyed it. I just chalked it up to the inadequacies of using those restricting labels in describing the complexities of human sexuality, and - when necessary - would apply the label "straight," given my primary a attractions. But then there's the problem of adequately explaining on adult sites similar to this one or chat rooms how I'm "straight" but enjoy looking at male porn as well (solo, bi and gay). In the past week or so, though, I've come to, if not embrace identifying myself as bi, accepting that it's the term that best applies for a multitude of reasons. Changed the orientation identifier on the sites that have them and...not only did the world not end, but, frankly, no one seems to have noticed the switch. So, yeah...I'm bi. It doesn't mean I'm going to run out and start cheating on my wife with men any more than being straight would make me run out and cheat on her with women. It just means that my tastes are broader in what I look at when having some fun on my own. There are other circumstances that make me sometimes want to bust through that personal boundary, but that's a whole 'nother entry for a later time.
I wonder if anyone else has had this desire or if this is a phase I am going through in my life. I have had a tremendous sex life with women and it has been enjoyable for both. My bi side has been unexplored mainly except when younger and one short time about 5 years ago. I am in my mid 50's and all the sudden I am having desires to apply my lips only to the ocassion. That is what I call sex in the middle, not fucking or climaxing necessarily myself but please a man or a woman with my lips. The one and only male experience (except when younger) happened in a car with a fellow co-worker friend of mine that was rathe impromptu. He wanted to see mine and I wanted to see his. His penis was nestled in his shorts and I sucked him to cum and swallowed for the first time. There wasn't time for me to cum cause we had to get back to work. It was though a pleasurable experience doing it for him. This started me thinking how great it would be to pleasure a penis or a pussy with my lips and my fingers without an orgasm on my part. This is not to say I would not want one but now I am getting a thrill out of the thought of providing a make or female some lip pleasure. Anyone else been like this?
i'm in kind of a weird mood today felt like letting my emotions write a fantasy for me. not necessarily what i want just some thoughts that are turning me on right now. might not feel like this @ all tomorrow. i can't wait to be with a hot guy, slowly get naked for him, have him put his arms around me tell me how attractive i am, how desirable i am, how he wants to make me his, how much he wants to make love to me. then move forward & put his lips on mine. then he slowly strips naked too. i've got so many different intense confusing feelings going on. i'm so nervous i've never done this before. this is so new & i'm still kinda unsure. plus this is still kinda taboo enjoying the touch of another man. in some ways i never thought i would ever get to this point. but i have been thinking about this day & wanting it for a long time & it's high time to have this experiance. the pleasure, the lust i'm feeling for my new same sex lover is overtaking my inhibitions & i can't deny this feels so good, so right & i allow myself to accept sexual pleasure from a man. i realize who i really am. i admit my bisexuality, in fact i'm real happy about it! for years i have let myself & society deny these feelings, somehow fooling me into thinking this is wrong. but i see the truth clear as a bell. this is not wrong. this is who i am. i like guys too & today i declare sexual independence! i feel so free in his arms, like a huge weight has been lifted off of me. now it's time to move forward on this new road that is available to me that has allways really been available to me. i look in his eyes with a determined look. i pause for awhile then say i never thought i would be saying this to another guy but tonite i offer myself to u, mind body & soul. i want u to take me completely. and that is what he does for the rest of the nite. by surrendering myself to him i am able to experiance a new passion, so intense i could never have even imagined it before. i am firmly convinced i have made the right decision. my only regret is i didn't experiance this sooner in life because i really like it! but @ least now i am familiar with a new pleasure in life. i wish every man could have such an experiance. eventually we get tired. the nite ends with little kisses on each other's lips, cheeks, neck. we snuggle up in each other's arms with big smiles on our faces & fall asleep. when i wakeup the next morning i slowly realize there is a man in my bed & we're both naked. the homosexual intimacy from last nite suddenly comes to mind. a wave of shock goes through me when i realize i have gone all the way with a guy including the ultimate act of a man's submission to another man. i am no longer the person i was yesterday when all of this was just in my mind. i have crossed that line into a new identity. i look @ him & say u were wonderfull last nite! he smiles. then i say thank u for making me a man, he says ur welcome. then our lips meet again. after they slide off each other he lets i love u slip out, but his eyes tell me he's being sincere & he doesn't regret admitting it to me. even though i have gone farther than i had ever imagined i was not prepared to hear that. i have been working on allowing myself to enjoy a nite of forbidden pleasure but i never pictured myself going beyond sexual enjoyment & falling for a guy. i'm in a weird position emotionally right now. i can't undo him being in me last nite so there's no going back. i was now fully bisexual by experiance. but going forward doesn't look like a possibility either. i never counted on the fact he could challenge me to take our intimate encounter beyond sex into deep emotional connection. it's a place i never wanted to go near. i start to think about the whole situation. last nite's experiance made me grow as a person. i now have a new awareness. this is helping me make sense of this new development. he brought out new & wonderfull feelings in me last nite. because of that we now have a deep emotional bond. no matter if we get dressed & go to the courthouse right now & get married like we can in this state (yay gay rights!) or we part ways & never see each other again. but the fact of the matter is last nite we were 1 & had a closeness that could not ever be undone. i'm beginning to realize i just gotta keep going forward & against everything i have built myself up as my whole life i see this feels right. i have a moment of serenity & confess i love u too.
Me and 2 friends are throwing a sex party Saturday night here in Round Rock Tx we are looking for some bisexual men that wantt to join us,must have a pic for us to see,then we will invite you to it.Bring you own party favors poppers toys etc...
[QUOTE=biguyforguys;269374]Hi I'm bi and married and my wife knew I was bi before I married her I asked her would I have to change me if we did she said no but after the ring went on her finger it did I can't be me anymore. So now I sneak around talking and flirting with a few guys but haven't did anything other then play with my toy every once in a while I feel like I'm hiding a part of me and I just don't know how long I can do this for I love her to death but I feel like a part of me is dying to please give me some advice on it all ideas anything would be helpful thanks...[/QUOTE]
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